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on Monday, May 16, 2005 at 16:33:21, nash wrote: I've totally fallen for a dancer at a neighborhood club. We've gone out twice and I'm crazy about her. I don't understand how such a nice girl doesn't get that dancing nude and lapdancing is selling sex and that is not okay. She told me the money is too good to pass up. I'm so conflicted about getting involved further- any thoughts from some of the girls on this?
I started dancing on my 18th birthday (I'm 19 now). People say I am a "nice girl" - I'm shy and always got really good grades in high school. But I need money for college. I dance nude, lap dances, and V.I.P. dances. I've dated two men who are regular patrons of the club. They both dumped me when I wouldn't quit dancing - they said it was wrong to do it and that I was a slut if I kept doing it. I guess I am selling sex - but then aren't they buying it? Aren't you buying sex from the girls in the club where you met the dancer? If her selling sex isn't okay, why is you buying sex okay? |