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on Tuesday, May 17, 2005 at 21:57:08, eric wrote: Ok, glad to see you posted again and took back what you said about paying for sex being the same as selling sex. They aren't the same at all. I'm a 34 year old male, and it is perfectly normal and ok for me to go to a strip club and pay girls to get nude for me. There is nothing wrong with that. It is not normal or ok for a girl to take all her clothes off in front of a room full of strange men, and to let them stare at her and touch her. I am very, very glad a lot of girls do it, but they shouldn't expect guys to think they are "good girls". They aren't. Which is why I don't date strippers - I like watching them strip, like getting the lap dances, etc., but I don't want to date a girl who shows her pussy to any man who gives her a few bucks. Doing that for money is sleazy. Paying a girl to show you her pussy IS NOT the same at all - there is nothing wrong with that. When I do that I'm not taking my clothes off or anything. And I'm not making her do it - she's doing it just for money. Saying that me paying for a girl to strip is the same as a girl getting paid to strip are the same is just BS. You're right. I was wrong when I said that, and I wish I hadn't. I'm very sorry for saying they were the same. It's kind of hard for me to use words like "wrong" and "sleazy" since I don't really feel that way anymore when I dance (but I did when I started out). But you are right it is different for me to take money to let men see my pussy than it is for them to pay to see it. And I know it is normal for men to pay to see girls nude, but you are right it isn't normal for girls to strip nude in front of a lot of strange men. I have to hide or lie about what I do a lot, but the men who come to the club never worry about hiding it really - they can talk about it and everyone is OK with it because they are men and all men do it and people expect men to do it. I can understand why you like to watch strippers but don't want to ever date one - a lot of men feel that way. But that's not really unfair or a double standard because you're right, I don't have to do it, and I am doing it for the money, and I am the one taking all my clothes off, not the men. I guess maybe I am being kind of sleazy or wrong or slutty, but oh well, I still enjoy what I do! |