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on Thursday, May 19, 2005 at 13:44:43, sandy wrote: Hi Eric,
You're right. I was wrong when I said that, and I wish I hadn't. I'm very sorry for saying they were the same. It's kind of hard for me to use words like "wrong" and "sleazy" since I don't really feel that way anymore when I dance (but I did when I started out). But you are right it is different for me to take money to let men see my pussy than it is for them to pay to see it. And I know it is normal for men to pay to see girls nude, but you are right it isn't normal for girls to strip nude in front of a lot of strange men. I have to hide or lie about what I do a lot, but the men who come to the club never worry about hiding it really - they can talk about it and everyone is OK with it because they are men and all men do it and people expect men to do it. I can understand why you like to watch strippers but don't want to ever date one - a lot of men feel that way. But that's not really unfair or a double standard because you're right, I don't have to do it, and I am doing it for the money, and I am the one taking all my clothes off, not the men. I guess maybe I am being kind of sleazy or wrong or slutty, but oh well, I still enjoy what I do!
Eric
Not trying to put you down dude, but your message is totally hypocritical. Of course it's wrong to pay a woman to strip for you. They need the money or decided the money was important enough that they are willing to what they do. That doesn't mean that guys taking advantage of that is the right thing to do. Would your wife or girlfriend approve of you getting lapdances- I doubt it. If you're going to say you're single, then it's even more important that you avoid the stripclubs and find a woman. |